^^^ I think many men are somewhat intimidated by independent, strong, self sufficient women. It seems to make some feel "they arent needed" in what they feel is their thing or role.
I think capable women are pretty awesome, but most women Ive met arent into the same general lifestyle as I have been (log cabins, mountains, self employed, very rural living etc). Oh well. Now, Im getting slightly more civilized, and realize theres women that like doing some of what I did years ago.