Anything is deadly........bicycle, skateboard, jay walking, suzuki samurai. Motorcycles are a great, economical way to have a second, go anywhere vehicle if you use common sense. Take a rider course offered by the Motorcycle Safety Foundation to learn the basics. Wear good protective gear, start with a basic bike to fit your size and ride within your limitations. After a year or so of riding take some advanced rider courses which build on the basic knowledge and skills you originally learned and practiced. And just enjoy the ride, that's what it's all about! I rode from coast to coast and back last summer (almost 8000 miles) and had a blast. The only way to get over the "fear" is to take a course and then start riding. We all started as beginners. I will say that since I now have a bike that has ABS and it has saved my behind more than once, I'll never have another one without it. Most bike manufacturers are adding ABS to their bikes now since it does improve safety so much.